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Choosing
a God Parent(s)
First--what
is YOUR definition of god-parents? It's not as easy a question as one
might think. Who has your same beliefs? IN EVERYTHING? We have family
and friends who are 1) same parenting rules...or 2) same religious
beliefs.....but who is both? Do you like they way they speak to their
children? Would you speak to your child that way? It was the scariest
thing when I became pregnant with our "miracle child" and realized we'd
have to choose god-parents. We finally came down to 2 choices. My
mother-in-law is a wonderful person, although not same religion, and
she's raised her child and deserves to enjoy being a grandparent. Our
other choice is a sign of the times and many think is weird...I have a
beautiful step-daughter who has been raised wonderfully by her mom and
step-dad, who just happen to go to the same church we do. They have two
other children who are also very well behaved. "Spunk with manners", as
I like to call it. When picking out god-parents, you have to realize
"THESE ARE WHO WILL RAISE MY CHILD IF I'M GONE". Yes, there may be some
hurt feelings...but it's YOUR CHILD'S LIFE. What is most important for
your child to learn? who will teach them if you can't? OH!!!Good
news!!!Yes, you CAN have 2 sets of God-parents. Just stipulate in your
will who your first choice would be. PS>>>It must be legally
recorded to be binding, if only hearsay, the state will put them
wherever they choose.
God bless and good luck!
When you are having a baby, choosing a godparent for your
child can be one of the most important tasks you undertake in
these beginning days of your child’s life. Choosing a
godparent should not be a popularity contest nor should you feel
pressured to choose a family member simply because it is
‘their turn’ or because they are your brother or sister. A
godparent is someone who promises to guide your child in his
faith and help to raise him the way you wanted him raised in the
event of your demise. It is a mistake to pick a godparent
assuming that nothing will happen to you and it doesn’t really
matter who you choose.
Choose someone in your family or a good friend that you know
will be a responsible and willing recipient of the honor. The
godparent of your child should share your faith if possible, if
they are to continue your child’s education and guidance after
you are gone. It is difficult for someone to guide another
person in something they are not familiar with.
Be sure your choice of godparent is aware of your wishes
where your child is concerned. A godparent is not necessarily
the person who your child is left to when you die, be clear
about these things in your will. Try and keep your child
familiar and close with his godparents so that he is comfortable
receiving guidance from them if the need arises.
Always talk to your prospects before making a final decision,
be sure they share your vision and also, be sure they are
willing to take on the responsibility. It is not wrong to tell
your candidates that you are still thinking about it and want to
get some more information about how they think they would handle
the situation. This is a serious decision and should be arrived
at carefully and responsibly.
From The
Founder
If you are/were
asked to watch over someone's child/children, for reasons of
death.... It is an honor ! Take it with pride an try and
set forth a positive life for the child/children. If you need us
we are here to help.
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